I build systems that feel like care.
For people, brands, and corporations.

It is no longer acceptable to ignore our responsibility in building a better society.
For anyone with the power, the mind, or the awareness to make the world better — it’s time to act.
This isn’t about building on Mars.
It’s about building here, at home — on Earth.
It’s about ensuring every human has access to quality food, housing, education, healthcare, and the chance to design their own best version of life.

It will take us generations to get ‘there’ and that’s fine. The best things in life happen over long periods of time, not overnight.

When I was younger, I believed life was a meritocracy.
I believed some people were simply smarter, and that everyone more or less got what they deserved.
But the truth is, that’s a lie.
And for those of us born into privilege, it is our birthright to uplift the ones who were not.

Every person deserves community.
Not apps — people.
Real people.

Have you not read Outliers? I read it at nineteen.
The story of two neighboring towns with drastically different life expectancies — and the reason behind it — has never left me.
It came down to this: doing life together.
Connection.
The kind of bonds that make life worth living.
The kind that quietly fights depression, anxiety, and despair.

We have the secret code.
It’s each other.

We were never meant to do this life alone.
It’s time for the iPhone to become we.
You don’t leave your faucet running 24/7, or your washing machine, or your TV.
You turn them off.

It’s time to turn off the noise.
It’s time to turn on what’s human.

My wish is simple:
To leave the world better than I found it in 1989.
To return again — and again — and again.
To walk this beautiful life with love and intention,
every single time.

I build systems that feel like care.
For people, companies, and socieity.

At this point, looking away is no longer an option.

with the privilege of awareness, education, and access — we have a responsibility.
Not to build new worlds on Mars,
but to repair the one we live in.

Here. Now.
That means quality food, safe housing, meaningful education, reliable healthcare —
and the chance for every person to shape a life that truly feels like their own.

When I was younger, I believed life was a meritocracy.
I believed some people were simply smarter — and that outcomes were earned.
But over time, I learned that’s not true.
And for those of us born into advantage, our role is clear:
use it well, use it wisely, and lift as we go.

Every person deserves community.
Not more apps — people.
Real people. Present. Unhurried. Human.

I read Outliers at nineteen.
The story that stayed with me wasn’t about talent — it was about two towns.
Same region, same resources.
One lived longer. One died sooner.
The difference?
They had each other.

We forget how much we need that.
Connection protects us — from despair, from illness, from the deep ache of loneliness.
It’s time to build for we.
It’s time to turn off the faucet.
Turn down the noise.
And turn on what’s human.

My wish is simple:
To leave the world better than I found it in 1989.
To return again — and again — and again.
To walk this beautiful life with love and intention,
every single time.

I build systems that feel like care.

For people, brands, and the lives they shape.

It is no longer acceptable to ignore our responsibility in building a better society.

For anyone with the power, the mind, or the awareness to make the world better — it’s time to act.

This isn’t about building on Mars.

It’s about building here, at home — on Earth.

It’s about ensuring every human has access to quality food, housing, education, healthcare, and the chance to design their own best version of life.

When I was younger, I believed life was a meritocracy.

I believed some people were simply smarter, and that everyone more or less got what they deserved.

But the truth is, that’s a lie.

And for those of us born into privilege, it is our birthright to uplift the ones who were not.

Every person deserves community.

Not apps — people.

Real people.

Have you not read Outliers? I read it at nineteen.

The story of two neighboring towns with drastically different life expectancies — and the reason behind it — has never left me.

It came down to this: doing life together.

Connection.

The kind of bonds that make life worth living.

The kind that quietly fights depression, anxiety, and despair.

We have the secret code.

It’s each other.

We were never meant to do this life alone.

It’s time for the iPhone to become we.

You don’t leave your faucet running 24/7, or your washing machine, or your TV.

You turn them off.

It’s time to turn off the noise.

It’s time to turn on what’s human.

My wish is simple:

To leave the world better than I found it in 1989.

To return again — and again — and again.

To walk this beautiful life with love and intention,

every single time.

It’s not cool to look away. It’s irresposible and it’s making you depressed. Start wiht you. Start with letting go. Start with flow. Start with what’s on your mind, or heart. Start with what you like. Start with lowring your pride and abandoning your ego. Start with thinking of that person on the other side of town, you just don’t know. Stop judging and assuming and realize we are literally all the same, quirky, cool, insecure at times, sometimes blue. We all have talents. We’re all uniquly genius. Some of us, are fortunate enough to exercise it. Some of us, haven’t arrived yet. The world is meant to run with all of us geniuses being healthy enought to contribute something from the soul. Life is not about earning a paycheck and hanging up your dreams in the process. Life is not about getting by on welfare and being complacent and passive. Life is about being kind enough to your soul that it start to grow exactly where you are. Where we are is always where we are planted. It’s always perfect. It’s always time to grow. It’s never late or missed. If you have a lazy day, do it on purpose. That time is like the seed of you being planted and watered and resting to burst. Let those times be what they are and when inspiration strikes, write it, meditate, think, and start small. Seedlings grow through patience and not by forcing it. Stop forcing or comparing or doubting your genius. Let me affirm you that the feeling you feel in your soul is truly who you are- it’s your genius crying out wantig to be known. I see you and I believe you’re in there and you always have been. Be gentle wiht yourself. Stop judging. Start resting and flowing and your art and work and vision will grow. Others will notice it, but onyl when you stop caring about how you’ll look to others and start focusing only on being yourself.

One ritual I did and sometimes still do to make peace with my innerself is something very frowned upon by most people i know. I look back to the past and revisit snippets of my old self-especially my relationships. I look back to look forward. Sometimes I reach out to old friends-old lovers- when I have a feeling, I know if I don’t address it, it’ll be a blocker. So I say things most people won’t. Because one thing I don’t play with is my soul. I like it unblcoked. I like it free. i like it expressive. Because then I’m me.

I hope everyone finds their freedom, their souls’ expresion. Their power in removin their writers block and living life as though you’ve never been abandoned, betrayed, or hurt. The truth is we all have or will be at some point. And life is so much sweeter if you simply accept what is, acknowlege what still feels painful or still hurts, and show the world your soul. When you show the people who have caused you the most pain your soul, you actually begin to grow. And the world needs that. Now is the time to act. To approach life from a place of vulnerability, freedom, wonder, awe, and acceptance that everyone is interconnected and blocking thoughts and feelings and impulses and connection is only a hindrance.

I only became aware of the various types of power games people play to protect themselves and hurt others at the age of thirty. this means that i spent three decades blissfully ignorant and totally free from caring about what others thought of me or how powerful i am or worthhy i am. I never played games. I was totally ignorant. I want to share my gift with you - that it’s a waste of time, simply a big waste of time - to care about how you look to others. People who judge you aren’t even worth your time. Stop taking things personally. Invest in your own souls’ growth so you can invest in the world, and enjoy life. It’s our birthright. But only if we live it right. Living it right means turning off your phone for most of the day. Doing life in reality. Prioritizing connecting over anything. Having slow, intentional, 90s style living practices. Go back in time to go forward. As someone who placed digital ads in front of hundreds of millions of people on platforms including youtube, google, instagram and facebook, I personally feel called to engineer a better world that isn’t about psycholgical manipulation and unconscious revenue generation. it’s about nurturing the human spirit and operating in your flow state and doing the work to get there and doing the work to sustain it.

Every one has privilege and every one must exercise it as a conscious leader and steward of their natural talent.

Yes, every one has privilege. Every person on the planet has an advantage over you in their own unique way, but you just see the outside. You don’t see the brilliance unless an individual has already brought it out and showcased it for the masses. But every one has a privilege and it’s time we start acknowlegding it. That person who’s skin has different types of melanine, that person who is differently abled, that person who you’ve down talked - they all have geniuses too. Do you know how much better your life would be if you saw it? Why woudl you ever rob yourself of the joy of expanding your mind, heart and soul? More items will never given you the happines your after. The only thing that’ll give you more happiness is loving yourself and loving others. And by loving others, i mean loving people who aren’t easy to love - who aren’t your type of people or who have hurt you, or who are jsut plain difficult to love.

but in order to love others, you have to be kind and genetle and patient with the most improtant in the world and that’s you. it took me years to figure out my path, and one of the many things that has helped me feel validate about who i am is reading two books i discuvoered in 2020 at home in san francsico - 1 the secret language of birthdays and 2 the secret language of relationships. if you email my team, we’ll send you a snippet.

that’s all for my stream of consciousness. it’s wednesdya jul 23rd 2025 aand i’m